Joyful Contentment

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Be self worth rather than pleaser to others

We are loving human being. So naturally we look out for love, respect, appreciation, being wanted etc. Instead feeling in but we looking out. We CAN practise feeling aware of what we wish to experience to ourself than rather dying to be with others😁

I have a friend  who loves to seek out approval from other friends or family to accept her as she is. She gets so emotional as she keep giving gifts to them just to get their attention or even keep inviting them to her place for party but they never bother to give her that intention or even speak to her no matter how nice she is to these people. She even goes all out to please them whenver help wanted because it her gives the feeling oh finally she being like accepted.

This been going on for years. She never gives up always hoping they will give the courtesy of respect and love she wishes to experience. So I have asked her why are you doing all these when they hardly acknowledge your existence. She reply sumday they will.

Here was my sharing to her, as Louise Hay said if we cant love or approve ourself, we are denying the existence of ourself as who we are. So I told her let go even it matters too much but to give space to inner within to resonate that emptyness she was trying to fill up. They are many people out there can be in her space when she fully loves herself. It never meant for her waiting whole time to feel the acceptance when she was vibrating it.

Then She did and doing as I say. She is becoming more understanding to herself rather focusing on something that creating the void.  Well arent we all like her, always craving to be in lime light or being populor group or really want more acquitance so it empower our innerself? I personally always  ask who is most important relantionship I could do for? The answer is simply myself.

Without the respect I give to myself, how can ever I gain another being to respect and value my existense in their life? If I keep the vibration that im only existed if I am known with others that totally dangerous self esteem. Self love creates the vibration to enhance the acceptance value of self worth that will attract of what we wish to experience.

So, simple, if you facing similiar moments,  do yourself a favour, learn to love yourself first rather looking for approval that other "should" love you. It can be that only as you love yourself and your inner align attract the ones your love is. Do not waste your time brooding on people who careless or who is blind to your existence, it will only create bigger gap in you n you will keep blaming life is bad. Never do that.

Your are beautiful.
You are handsome.
Your are loving.
Your presence is priceless to earth.
You cant be pleasing everyone because You have your own understanding. Respect and accept your core self because the divine energy is perfect in you. As you acknowledge that, everything comes as an understanding. You will know what to do and not to do because your are true to yourself first.

Happy loving
Blessing of love
Karamjeet

Learning to truly love self

It is part of process of life to learn to truly love the self. In my journey, I learned my body speak to me about myself, my true identity, my worth, my whatever feelings, thoughts that I am holding on myself. My body teaches me the meaning of patience in loving my self.

As in day to day, we awake in our world, we become so engrossed with our inner emotions or fear which preceived and captured by past. We are the programmers of our lives. In realising over these years loving myself, the prominent act comes from within. Therefore we are "the buttons" in releasing the thoughts that can change the entire happening within. Yeah it is very tough to believe this amazing secret but in my last 14years journey, I have experience the miracles in many ways but I admit my mind or the ghost mind🙄 will at times reconnect me to my past when I face similiar challenges..So what do I do then,  I can truly tell you, I am become the role play the 2 wolves game within. The trick is faith and trust towards what I have achieved to overcome the game. And surrender.

That keep me going to move forward even it can be terrifying because when a new challenge comes in my space, its very easy to allow ourself to be defeated. But here I can tell what is true power, is being aware I am love. You know when I keep engaging in my awareness I love myself, I deserve in being love. My past never define me my true identity,  this become my Armor of accepting and creating new moment within.

The beauty is when we aware why we are here,  to learn to truly love the self then we do not become victim of our own war. We become easy with self. This makes easy way to change within  and to let go to give avenue towards new happening, new growth of life. Amazing isn't it?

The point here, there is no point to blame at others in pinpointing it is their fault, or they are not educated, or their religion as such, or they being blamed what we think. As we think in our mind this way, but what do they think its not in our mind. Yet our hearts connected no matter where who etc. So what is the point being angry, sad, revenge, curses when we creating such thought even its terrible happening. As we realise the power to change is in our hand with unison of our faith, then the truly love is game of life.

Nothing is perfect, I do not believe it meant to be perfect in outer world, it is just being created this notion we have to be perfect so that we get acknowledge bigger or greater than anyonelese. No its never that because it is the Ego game. Love never compares, never discriminates, never destroy, never hate so its only notion, ideas because of past preceive moment.

Learned to truly love the self becomes joy of life. It give courage to pass the moment that we think we cant. But we can. Here my sharing focus within, take charge of every act and words thats becomes our gift of life.

Thats all for now.
Blessings of love,
Karam